Adopted Without Arms, Woman Credits Mother for Teaching Her Independence
Anna says the greatest gift her adoptive mother ever gave her was the confidence to believe she could do things on her own.
The 32-year-old, who was born in Vietnam without arms and later adopted by a single mother in the United States, recently reflected on the unique upbringing that shaped her independence and outlook on life.
Her mother worked as a physical therapist with children living with physical and cognitive disabilities.
According to Anna, that experience helped her develop a different perspective on disability and inspired her to open her home to children who needed care and support.
Over the years, Anna's mother adopted six children with varying disabilities and also welcomed dozens of foster children into the family.
Anna estimates that between 60 and 80 children passed through their home in both short-term and long-term placements.
Growing up, Anna said her mother rarely rushed to solve problems for her. Instead, she encouraged her to find solutions herself, even when it felt frustrating.
She recalled moments when she asked for help with simple tasks, such as putting on a jacket, only to be told to try first before receiving assistance. While difficult at the time, Anna now believes those experiences played a major role in helping her become self-reliant.
Rather than focusing on what she could not do, her mother approached challenges with the belief that Anna was capable unless proven otherwise. Whether it was carrying a backpack or managing everyday tasks, she was encouraged to push her own limits.
Looking back, Anna says that approach allowed her to learn through experience and helped build the independence she values today.
At the same time, her mother made sure she had access to the support she needed. She arranged occupational therapy, worked closely with schools and ensured that resources were available to help her succeed academically and personally.
As a child, Anna naturally learned to use her feet for many daily activities, adapting to the world in ways that felt normal to her.
She says much of that learning happened through personal discovery, though she always had a strong support system behind her.
Another important part of her journey came through the International Child Amputee Network, where she met other young people with limb differences.
Seeing others who shared similar experiences left a lasting impact. Anna admitted that accepting her own disability was not always easy, especially during her younger years when she struggled with feelings of shame and self-consciousness.
Over time, however, connecting with people who understood her experiences helped her feel less isolated.
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