KADUNA BUSINESSMAN DRAGS EX FIANCEE’S FATHER TO COURT, DEMANDS DOWRY REFUND. (PHOTO).

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Kaduna businessman drags ex fiancee’s father to court, demands dowry refund A businessman, Nasiru Dayyabu, on Wednesday, dragged the father of his ex-fiance, Mallam Sani Direba, to Shari’a Court II sitting at Magajin Gari, Kaduna over N260,000 dowry. The complainant had joined Direba in the suit against two brothers demanding a refund of N250, 000 dowry and N10,000 introduction money he paid to marry his daughter. Represented by his counsel, Mr Sani Sunusi, the complainant told the court that he sent his people from Karaye, Kano State to Kaduna in 2025, to seek for the defendant’s daughter’s hand in marriage. “We paid the dowry and the introduction money (kudin gausuwa) and were waiting for them to set a date for the wedding,” he said. “Unfortunately, the lady’s father called to inform us that they have cancelled the marriage.” The counsel said the complainant had asked for the refund of his money since Sept. 2025 but all the efforts he made proved abortive. He claimed that his client ...

SLEEPING WITH A VIRGIN IS TRAUMATIC FOR MEN- ACTOR, BAAJ ADEBULE. (PHOTO).


 Sleeping with a virgin is traumatic for men - actor, Baaj Adebule


Nollywood actor, Baaj Adebule said he does not want to marry a virgin because the first experience can be "traumatic" for men.


Speaking on Pulse Hot Takes, the actor shed light on the male experience in such situations, highlighting the emotional toll it can take on a man.


“I don’t want to marry a virgin, because first, obviously, you will have to do the 'disvirgining,' which is something I’ve been through before and it is quite traumatic," he began.


Going on, he added: "When people think about it, they only think about the lady, obviously because she's the one that has to go through it. But nobody thinks about the guy and what he goes through to do it. It is a very terrible experience for a guy.”


Adebule emphasised the importance of considering both perspectives in discussions about virginity. He went on to express empathy, acknowledging that while the focus is usually on the woman's experience, the emotional and psychological impact on the man during such moments is often disregarded.


When the topic of pride came up, Adebule touched on the notion of being proud of one's choices, comparing virginity to achievements like maintaining physical fitness. He asserted that even though he won't take a virgin as a bride, he agrees that the discipline is something to be proud of.


"I think being a virgin is something you can be proud of as is the case of a person who works out and looks pretty good, she should be proud of that. So if it's not something that is easy to achieve and takes discipline, then it's something to be proud of," he concluded.

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