MISTAKES LADIES MAKE IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE . (PHOTO).

 MISTAKES LADIES MAKE IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE 

MARRYING AN OLDER MAN:

I don’t think marrying older men is bad but marrying someone that is old enough to be your father or older than your father, I'd a bit tricky.

Long term physical and ideological discrepancies will set in. Take care.

PLEADING, BEGGING & CRYING FOR MEN to marry them; 

My Dear Daughters, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead. Begging shows your level of despair. You immediately loose value in his sight.

Now if you don't mind then it doesn't matter.

COOKING FOR THE GUY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO, Just to cooking for him once in a while is not an issue. But if  becomes a regular pattern then you are a mumu girl. Na your Ekwang wey you cook e go take give the girl wey yi love. Foolish tin.

NOT QUITTING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP:

Dear Daughters, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you. I mean mental, financial and even physical abuse.

MOVING IN WITH A MAN THAT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. 

My Dear Child, you are mistaken because that will never happen. You can even bare children in that position and be told he is getting married in kumba, next week. Stay for a short time to know the man's weaknesses and habits, not with the intention to push him to marry you. Error!

DATING A MAN FOR A LONG TIME WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER, or where your relationship stands.

SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS TOO EARLY:

Sisters always talk too early. They always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

This early reveal is not healthy at all. Most men are not mature like that. No talk too early. Observe learn and operate.

UNFRIENDING YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF A MAN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH:

Believe me my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess. Most times this attitude backfires. Keep your good friends my dear. You may need them. Yul don show we pepper. 

ALLOWING A MAN TURN YOU INTO A #SEX SLAVE BECAUSE OF THE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE... This is where most sisters miss it, they think sex is love. 

My dear, sex is not a proof of love.

 You will continue to get hurt if you continue to allow sex to take over your relationship.

Edited for Your consumption and education. 

Shine your eyes before it is too late. Have a Blessed week my beautiful people.